Jeanette’s interviews of the most influential women in business and media as they share their love letters to their past and future selves.

    Jessica Moore

    Jeanette’s Personal Note:

    Jessica is one of those people who believes in you with an earnestness that makes you feel like you were silly to question yourself. From the moment we met it was Us Against The World and I know when a good thing happens she’s going to send me a text with at least three emojis and a slew of exclamation marks. When I received her letter I immediately got goosebumps. So many times we are too hard on our younger selves, wishing we’d done things differently, what were you thinking, silly girl? Jess shows her younger self compassion and provides endearing insight into the kindness and self love we should all offer ourselves more than any other.

    Ladies and gentlemen, I give you Jessica Moore.

    Love Letter to My Younger Self by Jessica Moore

    Dear Jessica,

    I know you love lists, so I’ll try to make this unsolicited advice less painful than you think it will be. At least read the list; you don’t have to follow everything. Just read the list.

    And before you read the list, listen to, “Ooo Child.” These lyrics will serve as the thread that ties all of this advice together.”

    1. Sunlight is the best disinfectant. Don’t make decisions until you’ve had a good night’s sleep and a long walk outside.

    2. Don’t touch your eyebrows. Today’s Frida Kahlo is tomorrow’s Brooke Shields. And while we’re on the topic, DO NOT have the mole on your face removed. Pretty soon you’ll realize that being unique is one of the only things any of us really has.

    3. Many overwhelming problems will become quite simple after an hour on your yoga mat.

    4. Treat the mailman/janitor/barista the same way you treat your best friend.

    5. You will endure the kind of pain that you’re certain will be the end of you, but it won’t. Hang in there one more day than you think is humanly possible. The ache is always the most exquisite just before it subsides.

    6. The 5 lbs you’ve gained that are threatening to throw off your whole diet…. no one can see them. Everyone does however, see the frown on your face as you labor over this non-issue. Get over it.

    7. Choose the man who wipes away your tears instead of the one who makes you cry. Choose brains over beauty and a sense of humor over almost anything else. (And don’t choose any man at all until you’re happy with the woman you see when you look in the mirror.)

    8. Get a dog as soon as possible. A dog will help you understand your capacity to love and nurture like nothing else. A dog also reminds you that you’re not alone in this world, even when you feel like you are. Trust me on this. Get a dog.

    9. Trust your gut and guard it voraciously. Your instincts will always point you in the right direction. When you’re afraid, do it anyway.

    10. Be kind and supportive of other women. Not many of your peers will understand the value of this, but the ones who do are unstoppable.

    11. People will tell you it can’t be done. They’ll say your dreams are grandiose. Don’t listen. Replace your discouragement with compassion, understanding those words only come from someone who never had the courage to fail.

    12. Finally, let life unfold organically. “When you let things come and you let things go, you let things BE.”


    It’s all going to be so much better than you imagine it will be, Boo. You got this.

    Love,

    Me

    Jessica’s Biography:

    Jessica is an Emmy award-winning journalist and anchor for WCBS in New York. Prior to that she was the nightly anchor on KSNV News 3 Las Vegas. Originally from North Carolina, Jessica spent time at WDTN in Dayton, Ohio, and WLEX in Lexington, Ky., before joining the News 3 team in August 2010. In 2009, a deadly tornado ripped through parts of central Kentucky. Jessica was awarded an Emmy for her spot news coverage of the storm’s aftermath.

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